We have only used the shower a few times, and not for a year or more. A couple of days ago the shower connection started to leak whilst I used the sink (fortunately my wife was behind the open boot at the time).
I followed advice as above and connected/disconnected the shower several times (and added a little silicone marine grease to the connecting parts) which presumably reseated the ball as the leak stopped.
I can imagine a serious problem if the sink had been used plenty on a road trip, and the shower leaked inadvertently, whilst we were fully packed (I often hide computer and other valuables not far from the shower terminal).
I have ordered a 10mm ball valve to fit as
@JonnyOB in #6 above. I don't want to permanently leave the shower connected - though I accept this is another fix - because I like VW's neat solution as supplied, and I am mindful, as
@flying banana in #4, that the shower hose could also leak (this has happened with my home shower more than once).
I suspect that a little lubricant on the shower connector and perhaps more regular use of it is all that is required, but I like the 'belt and braces' idea of adding a ball cock as well which I can operate along with the adjacent gas top valve before trips etc.